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The Pleasure Guide to Foreplay
By:Suie Roberts
Sexual pleasure, to be experienced at its full extent is like building a house, You have to do some ground work and build a sturdy foundation from which the passion will grow.
Who was it who said that foreplay for women lasts for 24 hours? - That’s 24 hours of strutting and wooing to win the attentions of fair lady. This is not surprising considering our hectic lives or work, kids, the house, pet, daily problems such as a gas leak, the car broke down, the cat ran off and little Johnny has fell down and badly cut his knee again! No wonder 24 hours is needed, its sets aside time to prepare and to push the daily trouble to one side and to feel special and in the mood for intimate. However, despite what you might think, men also appreciate 24 hours of foreplay.
Things the 24-hour preparation period should include
Personal Hygiene - Everyone has more sex appeal if they smell good, but also a little deforestation never goes a miss. Guys are much more likely to get their balls licked if they are clean shaven because they feel nicer to the tongue. Girls can make a bit of an impact here by styling their pubic hair into interesting shapes. Girls should also make sure that their legs are silky and smooth. Particular attention should be paid to fingernails. Dirt down fingernails can cause infections, particularly for ladies because the dirt and bacteria can be left inside the vagina. Guys need to bear in mind that long sharp nails scratch intimate areas. Ladies need to check your nail varnish. Tired and chipped nail varnish does not look as sexy when you’re handling his cock or touching yourself.
Dress For Sex - The clothes that you wear influence how you feel so dress to kill. New underwear especially helps women to feel sexy and it's a sure way of improving your love life because if she feels sexy she will be in the mood for pleasure. If your feeling adventitious or just want to surprise your lover you could opt for something a little naughtier - a uniform of one sort or another. Guys can try dressing up by buying a cock ring, they can look very sexy, make you feel sexy and prolong pleasure.
Make Time for Wooing - Stick a naughty memo on the fridge, send a sexy text during the day saying what you would like to do to your lover. Make a quick unexpected phone call to tell your partner that you desire them. Send a naughty postcard email showing them what you would like to happen. These things will keep their mind and yours focused on the pleasures to come.
The important thing to remember in the 24 hour build up is that what you do and say should make your lover and yourself feel sexy and special. You need to set aside time to prepare your selves and your mind sets for pleasure.
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S. Roberts wrtes for www.Pleasure-toyz.co.uk an adult information website giving honest, straight forward answers to your burning questions, So come on in and see how you too can have a better sexual life. Packed with hints and tips of how to find and maintain a fulfilling sexual relationship.
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