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Eight Step Process for Manifesting Goals and Inner Potential - part 1
By:Robert Elias Najemy
We all have an inherent need to grow, evolve and manifest ever greater realities. This is basic to our happiness and feelings of self-acceptance and self-contentment. Happiness can be created in two ways.
a. By manifesting what we want creating the reality we desire.
b. By learning to be happy with what we have with our present reality - until we can create an even more positive reality.
We effectively manifest our goals with these 8 steps.
1. Clarify goals
2. Set Intention (consciously and subconsciously)
3. Determine Actions and "sacrifices of love"
4. Remove inner obstacles
5. Employ efforts and program
6. Perseverance
7. Patience
8. Detachment from result
1. Determining and clarifying our goals
a. We start by making a list of our goals.
What we would like to accomplish in the near and far future before we leave these bodies?
We might be talking about any goals on any level. Some examples might be:
Health
Lose weight
A harmonious love relationship
Financial security
Abundance on all levels
Professional advancement
Professional satisfaction
Greater effectiveness in dealing with clients
Better relationship with time.
Able to be more assertive with others
Greater Athletic achievement
Greater success with the opposite sex
Dietary discipline
Increased creative ability
Learn to dance (paint, write, act etc.)
Learn a musical instrument
Learn a language
Public speaking ability
To be able to be totally honest with self and others
To be able to be myself in all (specific) situations
Better grades at school
Learn to fly a plane
Travel around the world (or to a specific place)
More effective communication with _______
Be able to Love ____ as he/she is
Overcome the pain of the loss of a loved one.
Overcome attachments and or fears.
Greater Concentration
Better Memory
Emotional maturity
Greater Self-acceptance
Greater Self-confidence
Mental development
Thought-free meditation
Happiness in all situations
Inner Peace regardless of external events
Selfless Love for all
Moral contentment
Many other possibilities ________________________________________________
Please take time to choose a goal of your own or inner potential that you want to manifest.
Some of my present goals (inner potentials that I would like to manifest) are:
1. _____________________________________________________________
2. _____________________________________________________________
3. _____________________________________________________________
4. ____________________________________________________________
The first goal I would like to work on is: _____________________________
b. Then we will want to understand why we want to manifest these goals or inner potentials. This helps us clarify why this goal is important.
1. What do we believe we will get or feel when we succeed? (What is the need behind the need?) (Happiness, satisfaction, self-worth, acceptance, recognition, peace, security, money, freedom, satisfy parents) Why do we want, need or desire to do this?
When I have manifested this goal (inner potential) I (believe I) will now have:
c. Greater financial security
d. Higher self-worth
e. More acceptance/recognition from others
f. Greater freedom
g. Satisfaction
h. Inner peace
i. Long term Happiness
j. Greater Self-actualization
k. Moral satisfaction
l. Inner fulfillment
m. My parents recognition
n. Other _______________________
The most important of the above for me are: ________________________________
Sometimes the goal may not be ours but for our parents or for society spouse.
2. Is this goal for me or for others? Is it a childhood programming?
3. Is this goal worth pursuing as a process even if the results are not what I imagine or would like? Is this ideal important enough for me to make the effort not matter what happens?
4. Is this goal moving towards something or running away from something?
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Robert E. Najemy, author of 25 books and life coach with 30 years of experience, has trained over 300 life coaches and now does so over the Internet. Become a life coach.
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