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Becoming the Alpha Male: The Perfect Friend
By:Tim Wright
Let me start off by saying this: When I say friend, I really mean more of an acquaintance, a follower, someone who is in your group.
The perfect friend is someone who was once an outcast – someone who didn’t seem to quite fit in, or someone who had an unfulfilled need before they met you.
The perfect friend is someone who you recognized as having a need and you stepped in to fill that need; whether that need was a word of encouragement, the need to be included in a group, recognition for an achievement, or whatever.
Why is this the perfect friend?
Because they were aware of their unfulfilled need and absolutely love you for picking them out of a crowd and meeting that need that they had.
They are the perfect friend because they often feel a debt of gratitude to you (at least at a subconscious level), which they will often repay through intense loyalty.
Think about this for a moment.
Before they met you, they had problems. But once they met you, they had one less problem. You came out of nowhere and took the time to help them – and for that they will always hold you in high regard – even if people say otherwise, or if you do eventually part ways.
These people will be your best promoters, always ready to talk about what a great person you are – to anyone and everyone who will hear it. And they will always want to be around you.
Imagine if you had even only two friends like this. How would that change your status as an alpha male? What if you had twenty friends like this? How attractive would you become to women?
All of a sudden you have:
a) a group of twenty people who hang around you, and the size of your following plays a large part in your status as an alpha male
b) a group of twenty people who all see you as the leader – the alpha male - of the group, so there is no power struggle or competition within the group for the dominant position as leader
c) you have twenty people who can’t say enough good things about you. This is important – they aren’t talking about how good you look, they’re talking about how caring you are, how much character you have, all because of how you took the time to meet their need (even though they didn’t know you at the time), with no apparent benefit for yourself.
d) you have of twenty people who are extremely loyal and happy, as at least one of their needs is met. And who wouldn’t want to be part of a group that is both happy (having their needs met) and loyal?
As these types of people were outcasts when you met their need, they will become even more dependant upon you to meet their future needs, which only increases their loyalty towards you and your position as the alpha male within the group.
So, you can see the direct benefits of having friends like this.
So, go out and get some of these types of friends.
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If you want more of this original information and insight on dating and relationships, see Tim's other articles at www.bigbrothersadvice.com
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