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1). How to Attract Women By Being Different
Ever heard of Chanel? The monster perfume and cosmetics brand? Its founder said something fascinating: "In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different."

You don’t create value by being like everyone else, by doing things everyone EXPECTS you to do.

You become extraordinary by doing things that AREN’T ordinary. Just ask the guy Marie-Claire Magazine calls "The World’s Greatest Pickup Artist".

2). Negs, AMOGing, IOIs, ATCs: The Wonderful World of Mystery
One of the most common feelings we men often experience as we learn how to attract women is the frustrating Why didn't I learn this stuff sooner?
It's annoying to think that if you had only known the approach and seduction strategies that work a little bit earlier in your life, you may not have gone through years of heartache and frustration.

There's one guy I wish I knew about when I was single and struggling with women.

3). How to Attract Women: The Top Ten Ways To Tell If She's Into You (And the 6 Signs That She's Not!)
No one can deny that body language plays a crucial role in catching girls’ attention–and keeping it. Nearly *75%* of signals women send is through body language--so you're not going to find out if she's into you from words alone! Unfortunately, many men miss out on these signals, and thus miss out on the girl. The good news is, if you CAN read a girl's signals, you stand out from the rest of guys, and make yourself all the more attractive! With that said, here are 6 signs that she's not into you, and 10 signs that she is!

BAD BODY LANGUAGE
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4). The Top 7 Things That Women Want From Men (and It Ain't Money and Jewelry!)
It’s a question every guy asks himself, every guy struggles with at some point or another, every guy desperately wants to know the answer to:

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?

The answer isn’t easy to come by. There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old; fat, skinny; talkative, quiet; beautiful…not so beautiful. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities.

5). Alpha Male Soup: Top 10 Secrets to Becoming the Alpha Male (Without Being a Football Jock!)
Up until a few months ago, I always looked at "alpha males" in completely negative terms. I saw them as pretentious, obnoxious, cocky and arrogant. The only reason they got women, I thought, was because women are lame, dense, and go for pricks. The alpha males’ success has nothing to do with them, I said, and everything to do with nice girls, going for bad boys.

6). Playing The Game: Review of Neil Strauss' "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists"
A story about a guy who knows next to nothing about girls, then not only meets a secret society of pick-up artists who teach him how to score loads of beautiful women, but also becomes THE master pick-up artist himself, who both his students and his teachers go to for tips on how to deal and score with women. Sounds great, doesn’t it? The best part about it is, It’s true, and documented in Neil Strauss’ excellent book, “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists.

7). The Art of The Flirt: Seven Proven Techniques on How to Flirt With Women
What are some great ways to flirt? Here are my "Lucky Seven" great ways of flirting with women:

The confident eye gaze

The "Dale Head Drop"

Smile!

Open body language

Lean in to her

Thumbs in belt

Touch her

Let's look at each in more detail:

1. The confident eye gaze

This is how you start your interest. Nothing shows confidence off the bat like meeting a girl's eyes, and KEEPING YOUR STARE.

8). The Art of Impressing Women: Proven Techniques on How to Attract and Interest Women
It’s easy for us men to think that women won’t go for us unless we have a special talent. But as Erika Jong said, "Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place where it leads."
It’s true: we all have talents. Think for a moment about a talent you may have. It could be anything:

You know how to play billiards.

9). Where The Honey's At: Five Great Places to Meet Girls
Online dating is a multi-million dollar business, but for my money, I’d rather meet girls the natural way: out and about, in real-life situations. Not the bar, not the club. Just natural, fun ways that get both of you participating and talking about common interests and acquaintances.

Think that’s not possible? Au contraire. There are LOTS of great places to meet girls that don’t involve shelling out $75 a night for drinks or $30 just to get into a club.

10). The Art of the Approach: How Being Choosy Will Get You Better Girls
Who approaches girls the best? The guys with good looks, or the guys with good attitude?

Attitude, all the way.

More than any other area of attraction--conversation, flirting, body language--the approach is considered the most important. What other action so commonly is called an "art?" It's an art, because there are so many ways to do it. And the guys who approach with the right attitude, are the master painters of seduction.

11). The Art of the Kiss: Proven Ways on How to Kiss Women Better
Kissing girls: It's meant to be fun. If you're nervous about kissing women, or see it as only a gateway towards sex, you're missing out. In fact, the more you take your time with kissing and truly enjoy it, the more chances you have of enjoying physical intimacy with a girl. So let me show you how to kiss girls--and enjoy it!

If you've never kissed before, the best thing you can possibly do is RELAX.

12). Thank You for the Music: The Power of Playing the Guitar, and Other Talents
Someone once said, "Any problem you can't solve with a good guitar, is either unsolvable or isn't a problem."

I'd have to agree with that quotation, especially when it comes to girls. When it comes to landing chicks and improving relationships, a guitar is your best friend!

Why? Because women love men with talents--and playing a guitar, even at an amateur level, is definitely a talent.

13). The Art of the Approach...to Life
"How to approach women" is one of the most popular subjects discussed in the online seduction scene. It’s no wonder: How well you approach a girl, especially one you really like, will make or break the rest of the relationship. In fact, a relationship doesn’t exist if you don’t know how to talk to a girl from the very beginning. You can be the best guy in the world, a guy girls can only dream of—but if you don’t know how to make an impact and create a memorable impression, well, you’ll never talk to anyone.