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Scot McKay Profile and Articles
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1). The Age Gap—Dating Someone Much Younger
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
As you well know, there’s a stereotype about older, probably divorced men dating younger women. Sometimes much younger. The worn-out story tells about a guy in his late 30’s or older looking to “trade in” his wife on a “younger model”. Think of a 23 or 24 year old “hottie” and you are on the right track, but don’t rule out anyone (or anything) female who is “legal” (read: “18 or older”).
2). Infidels And The Cheaters Who Love Them
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
Have you ever happened across the Jerry Springer Show (I know this group can't actually be Tivoing it or anything…too high class a crowd) and noticed how people who are cheaters can’t seem to venture too far from home? I mean, the “other partner” always seems to be drawn from a very shallow pool of best friends, sisters, brothers, father-in-laws, etc.
3). It May SEEM Like Every Man In The World Can Approach Women, But Most CAN'T
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
OK Ladies, I know how it can be. Everywhere you go some guy invariably tries to “hit on you”. Maybe he even goes for the advanced routine of “putting the moves on you”. This could be happening to you every day. Possibly several times every day.
And I’m fully on board with the fact that such situations are far from limited to “ready-made” scenarios like bars, speed dating venues, etc.
4). Am I “Being Shallow”, Or Am I Just Not “Settling”?
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
Have you ever been told you were being “too shallow” when you expressed to someone what you were looking for in a partner? I know I have.
If we say we want our future mate to look a certain way, we get the “shallow” routine from people we talk to. Numerous women I’ve talked to report that they draw similar disdain when they say they want an “intelligent” man.
5). Approaching Women: Making It Happen…The RIGHT Way, For A Change
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
Last time we talked about how most men have a much tougher time approaching women than most women think they do. With that discussion covered, let’s talk about some ways to make some positive introductions happen. Sound good? Thought so.
So what to do? How can men have an easier time approaching women? And ladies, what can you do to make the experience of men approaching you more enjoyable?
Guys:
1) First and foremost, reframe your mind.
6). I'm Not Ken And She's Not Barbie...Thank God
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
Please tell me that you know better than to believe what the media tells you about what the opposite gender is attracted to. I mean, you don’t believe all that drivel you are fed on a constant basis…do you?
Oh, I know. It’s easy to get brainwashed by the exhortations to lose the weight, gain the bust size, re-grow the hair, get rid of the hair, etc.
7). What She Really Means When She Says, “I Want A Man To Protect Me”
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
I don’t know how many times I’ve heard a woman say she wants to be “protected” by a man. Stereotypically, I tend to think of a petite little cutie uttering these words, either because she has a genuine concern that lawless thugs are going to be attempting to “whack” her, or because she’d just rather not break a nail fending them off.
8). Approaching Women: The Simple Event That Changed My Life
Copyright 2006 X & Y Communications
It was a perfectly normal Saturday afternoon. I was going to visit my girlfriend later in the day, but until then it was time to run the usual slate of typical, mundane errands.
Even though I was in a relationship at the time, I had learned from my research on men and women that ‘style’ was important—so I had some nice jeans and a button down shirt on.
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