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1). Dating Advice: You Have To Make a Woman Feel
You can buy a woman flowers for the next ten years and it won’t matter unless you make her FEEL an attraction to you. Women don’t care how things work; they care how things make them feel. In all of the romance novels and soap operas women have been devouring since they were kids, the leading males are always untamable, strong men who sweep women off their feet.

2). Dating Advice: Don’t Set Off Her “Player Alarm”
A major mistake that many guys make is dimming the lights as soon as they get the girl onto the couch. This is one of several “Player Alarms” that men often do that make women think, “Oh God, he’s about to make a move”. Another thing that a lot of guys do is turn on some romantic music right away. This is another major alarm that screams, “I‘m a player and I’m about to try to get into your pants”.

3). Dating Advice: Making First Contact with a Woman
Here’s one example you play use this playful teasing to establish touch with a woman. I like to actually start a play fight with a girl. This is not good at the initial pick-up point but works well after you’ve been around a girl for at least an hour. Look for a good way to start the play fight – don’t just start out of nowhere. For example – if she mentions she’s been working out, this is a perfect time to initiate the fight.

4). Dating Tips: A Woman’s Genetic Programming
Whether we want to admit it or not, human beings are to a large degree victims of our genetic programming. No matter what a woman says or how civilized, cultured or progressive she tries to be, she has very specific evolutionary characteristics that she’s attracted to.

This is great news for us because all we have to do is embrace those characteristics and we’ll have women falling all over us.

5). Dating Advice: Be a Good Guy – Not A Nice Guy
Guys who describe themselves as the nice guy are always saying things like, “Why do nice guys finish last?” The answer is - they don't… Weak guys finish last. Very often behaviors that you call nice are perceived by women as weak. And they are usually right. So Mr. Nice Guy, get ready for a rude awakening - You are really Mr. Weak Guy. The gauge you are using to qualify your “niceness” is way off.

6). Learn To Attract Women: Preparing For the Approach
The First step when mentally preparing for the “task” of actually going out and meeting women is to think of the absolute worst that can happen. The absolute worst thing that will happen is she says something like “get lost loser”. Now the chances of her saying this are very slim. If she’s not interested she’ll be more likely to say something like, “I have a boyfriend” or she’ll just try to ignore you and turn to talk to her friends.

7). Dating Advice: What American Idol Can Teach Us about Attracting Women
When used correctly, arrogance can be an amazing tool to help you attract women. When you’re slightly arrogant, females want to find a redeeming softer side to you. If you're too arrogant or rude you will blow your chances.

Let's look at Simon Cowell for a minute. When we first saw Simon on American Idol our first instinct was to hate the guy. We all said, "What an arrogant bastard".

8). Double Your Dating Confidence
The first step to becoming the confident guy you’ve always wanted to be is to close your eyes and imagine every aspect of his character. Without a very vivid picture of who you want to become, you’ll never become him.

I want you to take a moment to ponder each one of these questions: How does he walk? How does he move? What does his voice sound like? Does he hold his head high? How does he dress? I want you to go through every aspect of his character.

9). Dating Advice: Don’t Let Her Hurt Your Feelings
Part of being a real man and not falling into the nice guy “friend zone” is not letting her hurt your feelings easily. Never let her think she hurt your feelings or struck a nerve with you even when she actually does. Just like the age old saying goes, "Never let em see you sweat". When she knows she can hurt your feelings with her words she'll see that as insecurity.