Infidelity Cheating Articles

1). Cheating Husband or Wife: 6 Keys to Know if You are Ready to Handle What You Might Find When You Spy By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
When you spy on your suspected cheating spouse, please make sure you consider all the possibilities you might encounter and whether you can handle them. Have you considered the many situations that spying might uncover? Can you imagine the worst thing you might find? Predict what your response will be to the worst-case scenario. Are you ready? Here.
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2). Emotional Infidelity: A KEY Tactic to Save the Marriage By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
Hearing that your cheating spouse is “in love” with someone else is devastating. I hear often, “I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that. But, for her to give herself emotionally and “love” someone else…man, that is hard.” (Feel free to substitute the word he for she in this article.) What can you specifically do to increase the odds of saving the marriage? So often the offended spouse reacts with intense feelings and pulls out all stops to “win her back.
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3). Extramarital Affairs: What Everyone Needs to Know... and what you can do to help By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
Recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in extramarital affairs. Put those numbers together and it is estimated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another involved in marital infidelity. That may seem like a very steep number. However after two decades plus of full time work as a marriage and family therapist, I don't believe that number is off the charts.
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4). Cheating Spouse: 7 Legitimate Motives for Spying By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
Should you spy on your cheating husband or wife? You believe you see signs of a cheating spouse. The need to know whether your spouse is cheating and EXACTLY what kind of cheating is taking place is often strong. There are a number of reasons why the drive to spy is powerful. Here are seven: 1. Trust is a big reason, not of your partner, but yourself.
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5). Infidelity Excuse: I Fell Out of Love...and just love being in love By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
I find this dilemma rather common for younger couples, probably mid or late 30s and younger. Usually one reports, “falling out of love” and is truly disturbed by this shift. He/she (and this is not merely a female problem!) wants to “recapture” those feelings. This person has found a “significant other” who has stirred those dormant feelings and this person once again “feels in love.
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6). Infidelity: How “My Marriage Made Me Do It” is a Cop-out By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
Ask someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this: “I have a lousy marriage. My marriage is dead. There is no intimacy, no sex, and no excitement. The love is gone. We’ve grown apart. I can’t stand the marriage. There was nothing happening in the marriage and the affair just happened.” These statements are rationalizations and fail to “get at” the underlying issues.
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7). Infidelity: Spying is NOT Revenge By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
Do not use what you find on your cheating spouse as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have wonderfully violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to him/her and the other person. This is very normal. But, don’t act them out. Using what you find to extract revenge will only lengthen the time of pain and anger. It will undermine your integrity as a person, lower your personal standards and make you exceedingly unattractive.
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8). 10 Crucial and Surprising Steps to Build Trust in a Relationship By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
1. Be predictable. When do seeds of suspicion emerge? When one begins to think, What's up? Why is he doing that? He's never done that before. That is so unlike him. He loses 30 pounds, buys a new wardrobe and comes home late from work. He changes his patterns. His behavior becomes unpredictable. You get the picture? Any movement away from predictable behavior can become suspect and trust can deteriorate.
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9). Cheating Spouse: Is Spying an Invasion of Privacy? By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
My, how the cheating spouse cries foul when he/she discovers you are spying. Outrage can be intense: “How dare you!! I never thought you would stoop to that! How could you!? How can there be trust in this relationship if you do that? This is none of your business; I don’t spy and go behind your back! Now you know why I want to pull away from you. How could I love anyone that would do something like that to me?" On and on.
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10). Infidelity: Difference Between a Rage and Revenge Affair By : Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach
The fifth affair I outline in my book, "Break Free From The Affair" is called: "I Want to Get Back at Him/Her." This is the revenge affair. It occurs in a marriage in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in infidelity. It is less a movement toward the other person and more a movement away from one’s spouse. Key Points: 1.
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